SOOOOO!!! I know its been a while since I updated you all. Ill try to make it short. I attached some more WONDERFUL [please note my sarcasm] emails from Psycho mommy!!! =]]]]]]]]
UGHHH THIS WOMAN!!!
So mini update. After that terrible mess living with Codys mom. I called my mom to come rescue me. She flew out to Denver on March 25th. Straight from the airport we left for MY home with MY family in Massachusetts. I packed everything the day before and just left. I felt sooooo much better at this point already. Of course my leaving couldnt go without an email from Kim [the mother of Cody] to Cody himself. I didnt even include that one. It doesnt even matter haha…
The day I left, I went to Kims house for literally 5 minutes to drop off somethings of Lindseys I had borrowed. I buried 2 letters in the jeans I put on the table. Five minutes after I left, Lindsey called and thanked me for her letter. In hers I wrote that I was sorry she was put in the middle, I love her as if she were my own sister, I hate all this shit going on, and I know her and Cody do too. I also said hopefully me leaving will make everything better over time and give everyone space, etc. In Kims I wrote and I will quote the EXACT things “PLEASE give me and Cody the space we deserve. Its hard enough having to try and start our own family together without interference. You asked a while ago if I thought you were interfering to please back up, well Im asking you now to please give us space. I would never ask you to not be in Codys life. But WE are hurting him. I think were both adults and we can go for 5 months without another word to him. I will talk to you about all of this in August when he comes home.” I wrote some other things but thats mostly what it was about. I also told her I wasnt the monster she thinks I am and Im done hurting Cody so we need to stop this ridiculous email banter back and forth. NOT ONCE did I mention ANY names [except mine and Codys obviously] in this email. So I didnt rat out Nikki for being a bitch, etc…
Ive been home for just about 2 weeks now. And one of the main things me and Cody talked about doing when I came home was getting my license unsuspended. My mom drove his car back to Massachusetts so that when I get my license situated, I can drive back to our home in Cheyenne and be able to get around up there. I told Cody I didnt want to because I KNOW for a fact… My fees and outstanding tickets are at an estimated 2000 dollars. Yah, I know… =/ Im definetly not perfect haha But I KNOW Im right about this situation. Me and Cody talked and he has said MULTIPLE times “Tabbatha, its not MY money, its OUR money” Isnt he a peach. [Sarcasm again…] Ugh I hate it… I dont want his money, and we would fight!!! I wanted to feel more independant and fix this on my own, he wanted to help, etc. I couldnt win. I was so stressed at his mothers and my mom wrote Cody saying I was changing because of living with his mom. Im trying to shorten this mess I swear…
So the past 2 weeks Ive been getting my license back. EVERY step of the way I talked to him and told him how much I spent. He did give me his debit card after all. And we had discussed this. Everytime I thought the fine was too big? I told him I wasnt spending anymore of his money and I would finish this myself and I thanked him for helping me… I ended up spending 3032 dollars BUT IM DONE NOW! Im waiting for everything to clear and I get my liiiicenseeeee todayyyyy!!! YAY!!! He knows how much I spent, but his mommy keeps checking his bank account online and bugging him… Which brings us to these lovely emails… GOD! IM SO SARCASTIC! Hahah
[Read Kims which is on the bottom first, Codys reply is on the top. Then it goes to the next email. At the end its just Kim writing him because he got offline to call me =p hahaha I WIN!!! hehehehe And another ps, I didnt change a single thing that they wrote except for the emails again. I just switched it to their names. So theres a few typos from them. But=Put, Can=Cant, and Cody forget to put the word “you” in one of his messages! Thanks everyone!!!!]
From: Cody
Sent: Mon 4/06/09 8:50 PM
To: Kim
she paid her license off her reinstatement fees and shit the dmv charged her..so from here on out im savining everything..her license is done
> From: Kim
> To: Cody
> Subject: what did tabb take out
> Date: Mon, 6 Apr 2009 13:43:02 -0700
>
> what did tabb take out 500 out of your saving for now and what did she charge to point software for 247
From: Cody
Sent: Mon 4/06/09 8:53 PM
To: Kim
she’s done!! were saving now! her license is paid back! you can keep putting it in my account i told she was gonna use it one more time
> From: Kim
> To: Cody
> Subject: i sick of this shit
> Date: Mon, 6 Apr 2009 13:52:26 -0700
>
> i sick of this shit with her and im done from now on i will but it in my bank accout so she can get to it
From: Cody
Sent: Mon 4/06/09 8:55 PM
To: Kim
YES i will see it all back! it isnt a choice!! she’s paying it all back and she knows it..sucks you dont believe her but she paid everything off
> From: Kim
> To: Cody
> Subject: that is now 3000 she
> Date: Mon, 6 Apr 2009 13:54:18 -0700
>
> that is now 3000 she took from you and yes it is bullshit i dont belive her at all and you wont see any of it back sorry
From: Cody
Sent: Mon 4/06/09 8:57 PM
To: Kim
the entire thing was the fees and shit!! keep putting it in MY account! were gonna save everything from now on!!!
> From: Kim
> To: Cody
> Subject: i will but it my
> Date: Mon, 6 Apr 2009 13:56:04 -0700
>
> i will but it my accout and give it to U when you come home and what was the 247 charged for on your card
From: Cody
Sent: Mon 4/06/09 8:58 PM
To: Kim
I do believe you about somethings but she ISNT stealing from me! she doesnt have a choice she is paying it all back to me and she knows it
> From: Kim
> To: Cody
> Subject: cody she is different around
> Date: Mon, 6 Apr 2009 13:57:33 -0700
>
> cody she is different around us and you only believe her not your family and that is what sucks i wont hurt you
From: Cody
Sent: Mon 4/06/09 9:00 PM
To: Kim
your pissed off?? i can tell.. i do believe you about somethings but im watching on my accounts to im not stupid mom
> From: Kim
> To: Cody
> Subject: fine
> Date: Mon, 6 Apr 2009 13:59:18 -0700
>
> fine
From: Kim
Sent: Mon 4/06/09 9:03 PM
To: Cody
yay im pissed off that you dont see that she is playing you cody i hate this but it is great timing for her dont you think ?
From: Kim
Sent: Mon 4/06/09 9:12 PM
To: Cody
so you never told me what the charge was for 247 to some software company
From: Kim
Sent: Mon 4/06/09 9:32 PM
To: Cody
so your not talking to me anymore did you get the package yet
From: Kim
Sent: Mon 4/06/09 9:56 PM
To: Cody
hello
From: Kim
Sent: Mon 4/06/09 11:17 PM
To: Cody
im sorry i wont talk about tabb anymore but you need to tell me what money is being used okay love u
From: Kim
Sent: Mon 4/06/09 11:19
To: Cody
will you please write me i did not mean to upset you im just as upset if not more but no more okay just about you now
From: Kim
Sent: Mon 4/06/09 11:22 PM
To: Cody
dad told me you talked to him cody i dont want to loss you over this shit okay so it is over till you come home talk to me please
From: Kim
Sent: Tue 4/07/09 1:02 AM
To: Cody
FWD: im sorry i wont talk about tabb anymore but you need to tell me what money is being used okay love u
From: Kim
Sent: Tue 4/07/09 1:06 AM
To: Cody
FWD: will you please write me i did not mean to upset you im just as upset if not more but no more okay just about you now
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